Monday, November 3, 2014

Ramblings about Life (and caving memories)

This will not make sense to anyone who doesn't know our situation, but this blog is mostly for my family and friends, so I will post it here anyway. (Mainly because it is too long for a Facebook post, and also because a lot of my Facebook friends won't care anyway. But for those few of you who DO like hearing my rambling thoughts, here ya go.) ;)



Update on our situation: (for those who have been asking)



Apparently Charlie's degree is still waiting on some AP credits to get confirmed. We thought that he had all the credits he needed for his M-Div but the registrar's office is showing a couple of his undergrad transfers as still pending (or something like that). 

Please pray with us that the school doesn't pull a "Laban" on him and indenture him for 7 more years! ;) 
(just kidding. it seems they are trying to work with him here.)

But it would be really nice for him to have this degree as a Christmas present! It's funny-- one of Charlie's online usernames is MBS2013. Every time I have to type it in, I am reminded... He was originally supposed to graduate that May, then last December, then last May... really hoping he is able to get his Masters before THIS December! :) It's amazing how when you have a full time job, a family, church responsibilities, and military service on your plate, school seems to fall to the bottom of the priorities totem pole. :-P But I'm proud of him for sticking with it, and I'm hoping the end is now in sight.

It's been a long haul, and there is still a long road ahead before the Air Force will give him a job. His Reserve commissioning paperwork took over a year... PLEASE pray that once he gets this degree his Guard commission will process in a fraction of that time. This two-br apt is feeling smaller every day! (But that's not going to stop ME from filling it with babies. We're pretty irresponsible in that respect, but when you want to have a lot of kids, you can't wait around for Seminaries and Air Forces. The biological clock marches on.) ;)



Ok, so I've shared this before, but the phrase that I've adopted as our "family motto" for this year is "Until God opens another door, keep praising Him in the hallway." That is hard to do! Hopefully God refines us (mostly me) into better people through this process. 
I know there is a light at the end of this tunnel, but as anyone who has been wild-caving knows... sometimes there is a whole lot of breakdown to crawl over before you ever see that light.



Caving Analogy: (for those who would be interested in that)


Note: The following won't make sense to anyone who HASN'T been wild-caving, but hopefully that will just motivate you to add it to your bucket list. You can't really understand life until you've had the weight of the world LITERALLY on your shoulders. ;) Knowing that there is a hundred feet of earth above you is a feeling everyone should experience at some point in their lives. As well as the feeling of being in Total Darkness (something that you can't really duplicate anywhere else.) 

Ok, on with the show.

Crawling over breakdown can be fun... and it ALWAYS makes you think, challenges your problem solving skills, and pushes you to your limits (in a good way). 

But it also can be painful, scary, and frustrating. Especially if you have to turn around.

The good thing is... there is usually a reward (sometimes a cavern or room that you wouldn't be able to see if you DIDN'T crawl through the breakdown, sometimes a way out of the cave altogether). 

The bad thing is... there might not be.

Right now, this situation (trying to get Charlie through Seminary and the Chaplain Candidate Program) is our "breakdown". It's hard to crawl through it, knowing that there MIGHT be nothing at the end. We MIGHT have to turn around and crawl all the way back to start all over again and find a new way out of the cave. But God put us here, so we're trying to just move forward till we can't anymore. 
Either way, I know we will learn something through it.

Ok, well, that was just something I was thinking of this morning. Probably other people with caving experience have already come up with this analogy, and could add more depth to it. But that's all I have for now.



Oh wait... one more thing.
An old picture of me caving. I need to do this again sometime soon... it's been too long.



Now I'm done.



Thanks for reading.
(and thanks to everyone who HAS been praying for us! we appreciate it)


Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Book Review: Fifteen Minutes Outside

Well, this isn't EXACTLY a book review, because I will discuss other things than the book, and I haven't even finished the book yet, but in honor of Earth Day, I figured I'd post these thoughts today anyway.

So here's the book:


I'm only about 1/4 of the way in, but I'd call it a good read... especially for parents or educators.

Heard a review about this book on NPR a while ago (actually, while driving back from a day trip at one of our favorite places, Horicon Marsh) and when we came home, I added it to my Amazon wishlist.
Note: Anytime I buy something on Amazon I usually add a book or two from my wishlist to the order to get free shipping... If I'm gonna pay an extra $6 for something, I'd much rather pay for a book than just for shipping :)

Anyway, the book is written by a mom who made a New Year's Resolution to get her very indoor-focused young children outside for 15 minutes every day of the year. She admits that since her children are younger, on a handful of occasions they didn't actually make it outside (due to inclement weather, etc), but she gives a few suggestions for ways to still cultivate a love for the outdoors even while being stuck inside.

Note: in most cases, even newborns can spend time outside every day, and SHOULD. Many other countries recognize this... the idea that cold weather alone makes people sick is some sort of Western convention, I think. But the author of this book does give a few tips about proper attire; make sure you do your own research about safety in not only cold weather, but also extreme heat and other weather events. All that to say... don't let the fact that it is windy or rainy keep you inside! The real key to teaching children to love the outdoors FOR THEMSELVES is to teach them that weather is not something to be afraid of. If you have the right attitude, there is really no such thing as "bad" weather. Sadly, most children these days will not ask their parents to play outside if it is rainy. This author's goal was to get her children to a place where they are pestering her to go outside, rather than her pestering them to turn off the video games and get off the couch.

However, there will always be days of the year where sickness, travel, obligations, or other circumstances may prevent you from actually playing outside. The author suggests that even walks to the car or rides on a bus can be used as teaching opportunities for observing and appreciating the outdoors. And she gives some good examples of ways to "bring the outdoors in" as well. As I stated before, the point is to cultivate a love for the outdoors from a young age. My husband remarked to me the other day that he sometimes can't believe that he went 22 years of his life without ever seeing a beaver in the wild. So when we saw one the other day, even though it wasn't his "first" beaver (that one was on our honeymoon), he was still in awe as we watched it do its beaver things. Sadly, due to the fact that we tend to shy away from the unfamiliar, many adults these days would be at best ambivalent to such an observation, and at worst, afraid of the animal itself ("Is it going to chew my leg off??"). Hopefully-- if you've read this far-- this is NOT the type of person you want to raise in your own family.

Let me take this moment to plug another book for you... I've mentioned a lot so far about the fact that it's a good thing to teach children to love the outdoors. But I haven't really mentioned the WHY. That would take far too long to explain here; this post is already pretty lengthy. So here, take it from someone who is much more articulate than me and find this book:


Granted, this WAS used as a college textbook for one of my classes, so if a 335 page book about the subject seems a little too daunting to you, just search for "last child in the woods" or "nature deficit disorder" or anything by Richard Louv and I'm sure you'll find a ton of [shorter] internet articles and resources. Internet overload, childhood obesity, fear of the outdoors, lack of independence, and social disconnection are just a few of the maladies of the modern child that are believed to be at least partially linked to the absence of "wildness" in a person's life.

Ok, so back to the book at hand. I guess the greatest thing that I've taken away from Fifteen Minutes Outside so far is all the suggestions of easy ways to make the outdoor environment fun for kids: things that I want to try with my own family. Though I can't say that I've taken my son outdoors EVERY day of his life so far in the past 18 months, I have tried to make it a point to get him "out there" on a regular basis ever since he was born.
I am someone who is much more comfortable in the wilderness than here in the "city" (yes, a place with a population of 24,000 feels like a metropolis to me. I've heard the people around here call it a "small town", but what we called a "city" growing up was less than a third this size, and by far the largest town in the county.). So, living for the first time in a neighborhood where I not only have other people living within a few yards of my home but within the same BUILDING??... it's been a little difficult for me to think of taking my child out to our shared "yard" (really a patch of grass with a tree) as a real "outdoor experience". But this book has reminded me that ANY outdoor space can be a classroom and a playground. I don't have to take my kid to a state park or on a three day camping trip every week in order to get him to love the outdoors. He's already started hugging trees, seeking out mud and puddles, laughing when we get caught in the rain or snow, and trying to imitate every bird he hears. He's gotten better at spotting the neighborhood wildlife than I am! The other day he pointed out a family of ducks in a backyard long before I saw them. This is not to brag-- I don't remember TEACHING him any of these things-- but just to emphasize, as the author does, that a little outdoor time goes a long way. And the benefits to your family are innumerable. The subtitle of the book is "365 Ways to Get Out of the House and Connect with Your Kids"... the goal is not only to grow your child closer to the natural world, but to grow your child closer to YOU and consequently to grow YOU closer to the natural world as well.

One of the great things about a book like this is the fact that it recognizes that not every mom, dad, and childhood teacher "comes to the table" as passionate about the outdoors as I do. It's not called "Two Hours Outside" (though if you do make this a lifestyle, I'm sure you will find yourself wanting to spend much more than 15 minutes outside every day)... it is a book written with the idea that introducing your family to the outdoors is something that can happen by starting small. Even if the thought of getting outside every day is not your idea of a good time, this book gives some great suggestions of fun things to do to get even the most "indoorsy" parent to want to don a raincoat and head out the door.
And it's an easy read... the book is divided into seasons, and then further into months, with a separate 15 minute activity idea for each day of the month. If you're not a cover-to-cover reader like I am, just find today's date and read the author's suggestion. If your climate and/or circumstances prohibit you from using that exact suggestion (I've noticed that since the author is writing from her home in Virginia, a few of her "winter" activities are not things that would be feasible on any Wisconsin winter day), then just keep reading till you find something that sounds fun to you. Though I'm blessed to come into parenthood after a lifetime of homeschooling (where my sometimes less-than-outdoorsy mom still took every "teachable moment" to get us excited about learning and observing the natural world), I still have found many new activity ideas that I want to try with my own kids soon.

Ok, to conclude, just a thought on child-directed play. I think the author does emphasize that the best way to teach kids is to let them lead. But since this book seems to focus on the idea of DEVELOPING outdoorsy children (i.e., from children who haven't spent much time outside already, sometimes due to their young age, other times due to current lifestyle)... and in order to do that, many times you need to start with a little bit of adult guidance. That's where the book comes in, with the 365 generally adult-led suggestions. Most of them are simply idea "kernels" that you and your children will expand upon once you get outside and try them. Before you know it, your children will be the ones directing the experience, and you will simply be the one privileged enough to get to tag along. As your children get older, letting them have not only independent outdoor experiences, but also UNSUPERVISED outdoor experiences becomes even more vital, but since my own family is a little too young to allow this at the moment, that is a discussion for another time. My point here is just to say, try not to let your outdoor times become a "Mom says do this" type of play, but rather a "Let's see what we can do together" experience. This will become easier the more you do it... pretty soon your family will be able to write your own book of outdoor activity ideas!

Ok. I think I'm done. Hopefully all this has served to "whet your appetite." If you don't find this particular book at your library, I'm sure there are a ton of others like it. If you'd rather look online, there are infinite resources there, too. The point of this post is really just to encourage the "child-influencers" of this world (parents, grandparents, teachers, childcare workers, etc) to get excited about teaching this next generation of people to spend a little less time "plugged in" and a little more time connected.



Thanks for reading.

Friday, April 4, 2014

Ramblings about Seasons

As I was selfishly complaining about the snow today (April 4) and feeling slightly sorry for the middle-schoolers I saw walking home in their shorts and flip-flops, I had a thought. Not very profound, but a thought nonetheless that I wanted to put in writing.

When God created the seasons, He never made the decree that Spring begins somewhere between March 20-22.
Likewise, when He created the reproductive system of humans, He never made a decree that a woman's gestational period ends at 40 weeks.

He just set the laws of nature in motion and promised to sustain them. It was some human who "intelligently" figured out these timetables. These timetables are meant to be estimates, and they are meant to be helpful. But what they actually seem to do is make us discontent. Nothing causes more complaints than snow on or after the first calendar day of Spring. Ok, I take that back... ONE thing causes more complaints... a pregnancy that lasts past 40 weeks. (You can tell this is a pregnant lady's blog; I'm pretty much always thinking about this "wonderful" season of my life and how it affects my own personal comforts. Sorry for working it into the post here, but I never specified what SEASONS I was going to ramble about!)

Can you imagine how much more content a pregnant woman would be if she was never told a "due date"? Can you imagine how much more content a Wisconsinite would be if we never had the "promise" that Spring would begin on a certain date? Even though we know these facts in our head, we still seem to think we have the "right" to complain about anything that doesn't follow our time schedules.

Hooray! This is a (somewhat) shorter one. I really should replace all of those "we"s above with "I"... this may be something that only I struggle with. But just in case it applies to you, too, I'll leave the "we" in there. Ok, here's one more "we" for you:

"This is the day the Lord has made;
We will rejoice and be glad in it!"

Psalm 118:24 (NKJV)




Thanks for reading.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Ramblings about Disney Movies

I haven't even seen Frozen yet, but I already know all the songs and have heard all the "hype" so I'm expecting it to be good.



I was thinking today how "hyped up" Tangled was a couple years ago, and how Frozen seems to be following suit.



It made me think, "But what about all the Disney 'classics'... Lion King, Little Mermaid, Beauty and the Beast??? Did they get this kind of a reception back in the day?"



Then I realized something. Social media wasn't even invented yet when those movies were released, so when they first came out it was probably more like, "Hey did you see that great new Disney movie?" or "Only 12 more months till it comes out on VHS!!"

I don't think our culture is getting more appreciative, or less discerning when it comes to these movies... just more VOCAL about it. It used to be the kids in your class or your buddies in the dorm who shared your movie enthusiasm; now it is 500 of your closest FB friends who get to hear your opinion.

Which, in some ways, I think can actually HURT the movie. I know some people who wanted Frozen to be bad just because they thought it was so over-hyped. Or at least they were already bored with it before they even watched it... all because of social media. I don't want to be that way. I want to believe that Disney can still make great movies, so I fully expect to enjoy Frozen... whenever I get around to watching it.

And despite what I just said about how "over-sharing" may sometimes hurt our opinion of movies, I don't really think it's bad when people share on Facebook (or whatever media you use). Even if 100 other people have said the same thing, sometimes YOU just want to say it. I hate watching movies alone-- very rarely do it-- and even when I do, I end up talking with my husband all about it later or putting something up on FB about it. Movies are made to be shared experiences.
So, if you want to post "Let It Go" on your newsfeed one more time, go for it.

One more thing about movies and social media-- I know a lot of people say it is "uncool" to post critical moments about a movie on the internet... at least without shouting SPOILER ALERT first. As much as I hate it when I accidentally run across a spoiler for a movie (or TV episode) I haven't seen yet, I still realize that is my fault for being slow in getting around to watching it. I mean, it is a little distasteful to blast crucial plot elements on the internet within a few days or weeks after a show has aired or movie has been released, but I still think it should be expected, and people who are going to get bent out of shape about it should stay off their social media platforms until they are caught up on their other forms of entertainment. Don't hang out at the virtual water cooler until you are ready to engage in the conversation.


I don't think any of this is really ground-breaking or thought-provoking. It probably has all been said before, but it was just some things I thought of tonight. And I hadn't posted on here in a month or so, so I figured I'd just put my thoughts down before bed.



Thanks for reading!

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Evidence



This post contains a collection of links to specific articles on http://www.answersingenesis.org/ that give an alternative view to some of the scientific "evidences" for evolution that Bill Nye brought up during the recent debate. (you can watch the debate for a limited time at http://debatelive.org/ )

These articles just scratch the surface of Creation science research. But hopefully they will cause skeptics to look deeper, and find more technical papers that Creation scientists have written. Evolutionists may believe that Creationists use the Bible as a science textbook in and of itself and ignore the evidence in the natural world, but on the contrary, Creationists USE the science of the natural created world to validate their faith in the historical record of the Bible.
These articles are mainly written in layman's terms. But the fact that many prominent PhD's have been the ones that conducted this research should show you that Ken Ham doesn't "make this stuff up" like Bill Nye may have led you to believe.

Who am I to try to defend Young Earth Creationism? No one. Simply a Christian. Simply a concerned mom who does not want my son to grow up blindly swallowing everything he is taught about evolution. But the "smarter-than-me" people Answers In Genesis and the Creation Museum have done great work in Biblical Apologetics, and I hope that they receive more visitors to their website and facilities as a result of the publicity through this high-profile debate. I hope that more people learn to think for themselves and embrace logic and reason (which I believe is found in Creationism) rather than a force-fed religion (evolution).


Thanks for checking these out. While you are on the website, please check out some of the other articles about answers to common questions.


  • Concerning fossil strata:

http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/tj/v14/n1/fossil
http://www.trueorigin.org/geocolumn.asp 

[TJ article by John Woodmorappe, published on creationist True Origins site, refuting claims by the renegade former young-earth creationist (now theistic evolutionist), Glenn Morton]
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/tj/v14/n1/fossils


If you are interested in the topic of fossils, check out more AIG articles here:

http://www.answersingenesis.org/get-answers#/topic/fossils


  • Concerning limestone strata (rock in KY took millions of years to form):

http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/cm/v17/n1/rapid-rock-formation
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/cm/v17/n3/limestone
http://icr.org/index.php?module=articles&action=view&ID=2603
[ICR Impact article]
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/cm/v20/n2/bell-ieve-it
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/cm/v19/n3/clock-in-the-rock
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/cm/v14/n1/pliers

If you are interested in the topic of geology, check out more AIG articles here:
http://www.answersingenesis.org/get-answers#/topic/geology


  • Concerning ice core sampling:

http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/fit/ice-cores-thousands-years
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/tj/v15/n3/greenland
http://www.icr.org/index.php?module=articles&action=view&ID=355
[Semi-Technical—ICR Impact 226 1992]
http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/tj/v18/n2/icecore

If you are interested in the topic of the Ice Age, check out more AIG articles here:
http://www.answersingenesis.org/get-answers#/topic/ice-age


  • Concerning ancient trees:
[ICR Impact]


  • Concerning tree survival during the Flood:
http://www.icr.org/index.php?module=articles&action=view&ID=1205
[ICR Impact]


  • Concerning Grand Canyon rock strata:
[Semi-Technical, ICR Impact]

If you are interested in the topic of flood geology, check out more AIG articles here:

  • Concerning skulls in human evolutionary chain:

If you are interested in the topic of apemen and missing links, check out more AIG articles here:

  • Concerning missing kangaroo fossils on the journey from the Middle East to Australia:

  • Concerning the development of modern species:

If you are interested in the topics of speciation and baraminology, check out more AIG articles here:

  • Concerning the Lake Missoula floods and giant boulders:

  • Concerning the feasibility of the building of the ark and Noah's skills:

If you are interested in the topics of Noah's ark and pre-flood human intelligence, check out more AIG articles here:

  • Concerning the feasibility of caring for the animals on the ark:

(side note: when Bill Nye pointed out the picture of the National Zoo from space, he implied that all scientific advances are the result of evolutionary thinking. He gave the example of an understanding of gravity. Another example of evolutionists hijacking the work of Creation scientists. http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/cm/v12/n3/sir-isaac-newton)


  • Concerning the capability of the Creation model to make predictions:

  • Concerning the fact that natural laws we observe today must have always acted in this way:


If you are interested in the topics of COBE or CBR, search AIG's website for more articles:

  • Concerning rubidium and strontium dating:

If you are interested in the topic of radiometric dating, check out more AIG articles here:


If you are interested in the topic of astronomy, check out more AIG articles here:



Note: All of the above "evidences" were taken from Bill Nye's opening 30 minute argument, and not from his later remarks. Please re-watch the debate and search for the Creationist "answer" to the rest of his arguments.
I will say this, though... later in the debate Bill Nye admitted that he is not a theologian, and this is evident in his fallible beliefs about the textual transmission of the Bible. But even most CHRISTIANS don't correctly understand Bibliology and hermeneutics, so I feel I need to link to at least one more set of articles for further study on English Biblical translation and "normal" literal interpretation. Though I'm sure he has a good grasp on these topics, I don't feel that in this debate Ken Ham quite adequately presented the true Biblicist view on how we read and interpret the Bible. So here are the pages on AIG's website to search out these topics:


Ok, this post is already very long, so I will summarize now. 

Obviously I don't expect everyone who actually reads any of these articles to automatically take them as truth. (I would hope you wouldn't!) But I hope this opens minds to consider accepting that Creation Science is AT LEAST as reasonable as the theories of the Big Bang and evolution. 

Hypothetical situation: If a Christian came along and told the world that the universe began with an explosion of nothing, would the world readily accept that theory and try to find evidence to prove it, no matter how extraordinary it sounds? (Um, probably, yes. Because, with the exception of the person's religious beliefs, that IS what happened in the early 1900s.) 
My point is... the Big Bang theory is a BELIEF. Evolutionists such as Bill Nye admit that they DON'T understand how it happened. Creationism is a BELIEF. Christians admit that they DON'T understand how God works (though we CAN understand His character through His Word... and unlike the Big Bang theory, we have an historical document telling us how it happened.) 

So, I challenge you to look at the scientific evidence from both perspectives before you decide what you will accept. Next time you read an interpretive sign at a museum or national park; next time you flip through a science textbook; next time you watch NOVA on PBS or listen to a segment on NPR; think critically about what is being presented as fact.
When I remarked earlier that evolution is a "force-fed religion", I was alluding to the fact that any dispute of these almost universally accepted and taught beliefs is usually met with censorship and opposition in our country's schools and other public venues today. 



This post is not meant to be evangelistic. I realize that in the grand scheme of things, what matters is not what you believe about the age of the earth but what you do with Christ. But your decision for salvation is not up to me; that's the conviction of the Holy Spirit. It is just my job to proclaim the message. And establishing the truth of God's Word provides the foundation to that mission so that is all I hoped to accomplish in this post.



Thanks again for reading.

Saturday, January 18, 2014

Ramblings About Snow

The new fallen snow is so beautiful... it is sparkling like diamonds tonight! We've gotten several more inches over the course of this week (seemed like it was snowing every day!) so it has turned the mounds of packed slushy mess that we've been building on since December into a beautiful fresh blanket of white.
Sorry for all the cliche snow metaphors... this blog is really just my random thoughts; I don't profess to be a writer so I can't think of my own articulate descriptions of the snow.

Anyway, I was thinking tonight on my walk with the dog that it is no wonder that God used snow to describe the purity that happens when He washes our sins away. 


Isaiah 1:18
"Come now, let us reason together, says the Lord: though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow."

Psalm 51:7
"Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean; wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow."





What a perfect metaphor. My heart was a disgusting, dripping, chunky mound of snowplow mush and God transformed it into a gleaming sea of diamonds with the blood of His Son. Only He didn't just cover it up... He completed melted it so it didn't exist anymore, and then replaced it with something clean and beautiful. Unfortunately, I still sin, so my heart (though redeemed and perpetually being sanctified), still gets that icky slush on it as long as I live this life. But like the change of seasons, God is continually cleansing me. I long for the day that I will be white as snow once and for ALL ETERNITY.





Speaking of the change of seasons, here are some less high and lofty thoughts about snow.

We haven't seen grass for 2 months. (side note: I'm noticing that WI snow is different than PA or WV snow... in those places we would get MORE snow at a time, and more often, but we would have warm weather in between each storm, so you never had the same snow for very long. Here, we don't have that snow-melt-snow-melt cycle... it just seems to snow and then stay cold... so you could have the same snow on your yard in March that you had in December) But I still find myself loving the snow! On nights like this, I think "Maybe it wouldn't be so bad if our son became an Olympic-hopeful snowboarder like Taylor or Arielle Gold and we had to move for 5 months every year to follow the snow."

Ok, maybe I don't love snow THAT much. These siblings literally live in snow for 10+ months of the year... they live in two different places in CO with their family during competition season, and then train in May in CA, OR in the summer, and New Zealand for their winter in the late summer months. As much fun as it was to experience a 12 ft "spring snow" in April in CA one year (I wore short sleeves to go x-country skiing!), I still love the change of seasons, and I'm sure in a few weeks I will be ready to say goodbye to this snow. But for now, it is beautiful.

One more note... when my husband and I were listening today to this segment on the radio about these snowboarding kids, my first thought was not "I wonder if I could ever be an Olympic snowboarder" it was "I wonder if our son will ever be one." Does this mean I'm old?



Thanks for reading!